Do you think this is likely all just paranoia?

Dudee, ur totally paranoid. You always think the worst when it really isnt that bad. Maybe the reason you arent successful with girls is because you dont go about it the right way. When you tAlk to girls, you gotta have a little confidence. Dont believe they wont give you a chance. If you show confidence, girls like that. And dont confess your love or feelings to a girl you barely know. Thats what creeps them out. So good luck and i know it will all work out for you!